I don’t really know anyone who likes to be referred to in a derogatory way but the N-word seems to evoke the most emotion of all the derogatory and defamatory words that one’s imagination can conjure.

The use of the N-word or N-bomb, as some say, is a horrible reminder of our American past that most would rather forget and I find myself boiling inside when I hear the all too familiar ring of it. How can any single word spark so much emotion in everyone that hears much less the person(s) it is directed toward?

Even the use of the pseudo-cryptic term "N-word" is little better than the actual N-word. It seems that people feel more comfortable saying "N-word" though it refers directly to the real thing. In fact, N-word is in such regular usage these days–it wouldn’t surprise me if the dictionary folks adopt it for the next revision.

Some people try to fool you with alternate spellings and synonyms but the pain caused by them is no less intense. I sincerely hope that this article is educative to the point where no one else ever feels the need to use the N-word or its synonyms ever again.

Although its origins are now hidden in our dark past, the N-word seems to have originated with the privileged classes in America. To denigrate those less fortunate than yourself is an outdated pastime. To be called a newbie, noobie, noob, nube, or n00b in any setting is unacceptable. Cutesy terms like nubotron or newbiepie don’t take the sting out of the term.

The bottom line here is that one’s weaknesses and shortcomings shouldn’t be the focus of any conversation, chat, or online discussion. Limit yourselves to positive feedback and uplifting comments to assist those in need. Maybe the N-word will cease to exist. We can’t change the world but we can change our little part of it.

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Entry was posted on Sunday, October 28th, 2007 at 11:44 am under Tips and advice.

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